There is a mother’s love, love of country, love of friends, brothers, sisters, even places and things. But we are talking about romantic love, and the love that brings partners-in-life together; the love that often brings partners together to raise children. In fact, we think that romantic love is just part of the whole human reproductive strategy, like sex. It is a survival strategy, too. We are protected by another’s strength and assets when we love each other.
A definition of love we like is “The desire for emotional union with another person.” Or,
“Love is a strong attraction that makes you want to spend time with someone else.”
There is “companionate love,” too. That’s when the thrill is gone, but there is a deep, satisfying companionship and we still constantly seek the person who gives us this special companionship. For a quick, complete definition of romance that our science gives us,
go here. It’s a 2 minute video. Or if you’d like to read more,
go here. We actually don’t call love an emotion, like euphoria. Love is many emotions. We call love a motivation-- another person becomes a goal. It is a hunger or thirst.